From my point of view, we should change ourselves whenthe situation can’t be changed any more. Difficulties hide in every corner ofour life so we have to face them at times. But the problem is that we sometimesare not able to change the challenging situations at all as our abilities arelimited. When it comes, we’d better change our attitude towards thesedifficulties. Only in this way can we get rid of the tough surroundings and behappy.
Something like that happened to me once. There was atime when I was laughed at by my classmates while I was walking. I was puzzledso I asked them why they laughed at me. One of them told me that the way Iwalked was very strange and funny. I was sad but I just couldn’t change the wayI walked. And the situation of being laughed at by those people didn’t stop.Therefore, I changed my attitude towards the incident. I ignored those commentson me and walked as I used to. The comments soon disappeared and I was so gladto have succeeded in the quiet war.
So in my opinion, we should change ourselves first andthen the situation can be changed at last. It is very difficult for us tochange our surroundings but much easier to change ourselves. People around uswill see our change, after which they may change their attitude toward us.